A favorite saying: "You must really enjoy your own company. The advantage is: you do not need to listen to others or to please others and distort yourself, a person's world, do not need to listen to, do not need to please, do what you like, even in a daze is so comfortable."
People's lives are always ups and downs. Even if there are people around you to carry a heavy load forward, it is impossible to fully achieve smooth sailing.
Life is not satisfactory nine times out of ten, we can not prevent it, but can do to let it gradually disappear in quiet.
A quiet woman must be worth a lot of money. She can communicate with the heart of her own, can be the day's troubles in a snap.
When a person is quiet, almost anything can be figured out.
Therefore, when two people fall in love, if the man gives the woman time to calm down, the high probability of this relationship will be broken.
After all, a woman's life is not good, it is not worth money, but also to see whether they can quiet down.
An undisturbed life can be more comfortable.
In ancient times, men struggled outside and women raised children, but modern women have to take care of children and earn money. The pressure is very great.
As time goes by, they will also become agitated. This is why men always make fun of their wives before marriage, as if they were two people. In fact, this is the disappointment and pressure accumulated for a long time.
A quiet woman, she will not neglect her husband because of neglect.
They will be considerate of their husbands, and will not make "one cry two play three hang" and other dramas to brush their sense of existence.
Everyone in life is tired, and when a woman starts to abuse herself and make herself impulsive, the other half is bound to stay away from her.
A really smart woman will calm down and think of a solution even after a man has gone out of line.
That day she wanted to give Chen Xiang a surprise, so she left work early and went back to their small home.
Who would have thought that she found out that he was doing something with another woman? She did not cry or make a fuss, but quietly packed up her things and left the room.
She later acted as if it had not happened, until Chen found a new girlfriend, and the incident flared up again, and the assistant released the recording of the two.
When the evidence was presented, the truth became clear to everyone.
In real life, I am really afraid that some girls think that they can't live without men. They do things that they hate and become less like themselves.
In fact, silence is a new kind of power.
Whatever setbacks you have, they become clear when you are quiet.
Like you put yourself in the sea, all the twists and turns will be accommodated by this sea.
Once saw a particularly good-looking woman in a coffee shop, she behaved demurely and elegantly, reading a book quietly by herself.
Such a woman is pleasant to look at, and powerful to feel even when she is doing nothing.
The older GENERATION of people believe that face the Prime Minister and other things. In fact, it is not unreasonable, because everything you do will be traces appear on your body. If you read more books will have a scholar temperament. If you like sports, you will have a sunny youth temperament.
Therefore, all women should master the power of silence, and should not be controlled by their emotions. Apparently, quiet women are more pleasant than loud ones.
In addition, a woman needs to quiet herself as well as her environment.
There are all kinds of people in our lives, and it can be confusing to get along with some of them.
Instead of torturing yourself in uncomfortable situations, leave yourself alone and choose the company of silence.
You'll never be able to completely solve the trivialities of life, so just cut yourself some slack and lighten the load.
Some women always feel that they do not do enough, so constantly let the tired themselves forward.
They wander about the noisy city, in the noisy little home in the wrong.
Really smart women don't do this. They are always quiet and calm, and nothing can break their mind and body.
For them, everything is under control, and they also use quiet power to deal with it and keep themselves on top.
Lao Tzu said, "Water benefits all things without contention, and serves the evil of all."
When people stop arguing about right and wrong, everything will go smoothly.
A coin has two sides. Some people say that the coin has four sides. You think it is wrong to argue with it. The other side is also unconvinced with your clamour.
The result is obvious: whether you win the argument or not, you've wasted your time and energy.
Everyone sees and hears differently, and you don't have to force others to think the same as you, just as you can't make everyone in the world like you.
So, might as well be a quiet person, listen to their own voice, listen to the voice of others, reduce non-dispute, will be the inner thoughts with practical action output, this is a woman's real wisdom.